Friday, June 30, 2017

Summer Sweater

The phrase summer knitwear seems like an oxymoron, at least when one lives in North Carolina. Here this season's heat is sweltering and brutal, the air thick and moist, so linen cardigans and cotton sweaters, staples of summer attire in other locales, are more commonly worn in March or April.  

I wanted to knit a sweater, though, one made with summer yarn, since I will be traveling to Scotland, and I'm anticipating much cooler days and nights.  Last year I'd purchased ten skeins of Soft Linen by Classic Elite Yarns in a blue-green color, and, after much searching, I found a pattern on Ravelry entitled, Summer Leaves Cardigan that I thought would work well with this yarn.  I love the yoke details, and I am always a big fan of easy-on, easy-off cardigans because another feature of North Carolina weather is that it can vary wildly from day-to-day, or hour-to-hour for that matter.  In the wintertime, school will be cancelled due to icy conditions and snow, but, by the afternoon of the same day, the temperature creeps near seventy and only a few sad patches of white are left slowly melting in shady corners.

Odd to think about snow as I sit here on a hot, albeit overcast, day.  I'm at home, a rare occurrence for an afternoon, as lately my life involves driving to my mother's assisted living, driving to numerous stores--especially the drugstore--to pick up items for my mother, driving to the office, and, thankfully, driving clients to real estate showings. So this post isn't going to be a long one, as I have packing to do for my trip and a letter to write to a pen pal who is going to disown me if she doesn't hear from me soon.  

Since I had a few moments, I was inspired to steal of few of them to share my sweater and a word of caution. When I brought my work-in-progress to the knitting store, a woman working there shuddered when she heard that I was knitting a Drops pattern.  This company's patterns are known for being a bit challenging or, more appropriately, somewhat confusing.  (Drops is a Norwegian company so some lost-in-translation glitches may explain these issues.)  I have knitted a Drops baby sweater and had no difficulty, but Summer Leaves required a bit of improvisation on my part.  However, since the design is knitted from the top down (a method of knitting that enables me to calculate stitches needed to match my measurements without too much difficulty), and the leaf chart is quite easy to read, I was able to work up this project without any tears or frustration.   I'm not sure why I didn't need to knit at least two (maybe three) of the charts, though!  

After much deliberation, I chose heart-shaped buttons.

few weeks ago, after I'd blocked this garment and spent some time deliberating over buttons in the fabric store, I finished this project and was quite satisfied.  But I didn't have too long to dwell on my sense of accomplishment, as I had an entire bag of gorgeous yarn, Luma from the Fiber Company, waiting for me in a shopping bag.  I'd splurged on this to make a hoodie  to wear to the Shetland Isles this summer, but my trip plans changed, and I will now be visiting mainland Scotland and England, but have postponed visiting Shetland until 2019.   I decided that a hoodie was, perhaps, suited more for the coast of Shetland than the various cities I'll be visiting, so I changed gears and found a design that appealed to me--a long cardigan, but one with a hood that buttons off and on, so now I'm knitting frantically, hoping to finish this Salt (ahoi) cardigan in time for my departure.

I just started the first sleeve.  

This sweater has some clever details that add interest to the design.  

I will probably be knitting the hood in the airport or on a plane or two. And I just might wait to buy buttons until I am in Scotland, although there are over twenty of them, so that's lots of stitching time on my vacation. Of course, if I don't finish my long, warm cardigan, I can pack it away and pull it out for the week or two of winter weather here in the sunny South.  

Saturday, May 6, 2017

Remember Me

My mother is in Amsterdam here, circa 1969.  

     It is telling that until lately I managed to post to this blog nearly every month.   Even though I was busy with two sons, housework and cooking, four pets, an absorbing knitting hobby, and a full-time teaching job, I was inspired  to write on a variety of topics and take and edit photographs to accompany my prose.  Now that I am caring for a mother with dementia and promoting myself as a real-estate agent, I am finding neither the time nor the inspiration to post regularly.  When I do contemplate the blog, I am faced with so many ideas and so much time to cover that I lose momentum and abandon thoughts of getting to work.  The question of how to catch up after a hiatus perplexes me and leads to inaction.  Plus the fact that I am spending so many hours attempting to develop an online presence as a real estate agent doesn’t motivate me to sit down at the computer to complete additional work in the social media sphere. 

     But rather than abandon this blog, which has been a source of both solace and amusement to me over the last several years, I will eschew trying to cover what has transpired during the recent posting gap and focus on one topic—my Purls of Light knitting luncheon, an event I am sponsoring to raise money for the Alzheimer’s Association.  I began my involvement with this charity when I signed on with Giving Tree Realty, a real estate agency that is unique as it is rooted (excuse the pun) in community involvement.  Each of the company’s agents chooses a charity to support, to which Giving Tree Realty gives a portion of proceeds from each transaction.  In turn, agents are encouraged to get actively involved in our respective charities.  I began working with Giving Tree Realty at the beginning of 2017, when I had emerged from a two-month whirlwind of activity after learning that my mother had been diagnosed with dementia, so it is natural that I chose the Alzheimer’s Association, an organization with the goal of ending Alzheimer’s and dementia and enhancing care for those living with the disease.  
This is my mother, taken last month.  She is slowly gaining weight she lost when she was living alone and undiagnosed with dementia. 
     I have been busy creating fliers, invitations, letters to potential sponsors (yarn companies), reserving my neighborhood community center, and advertising through social media and in person at knitting groups to promote my event, one which will be held on June 24, a Saturday in close proximity to June 21, the summer solstice, or what the Alzheimer’s Association calls “The Longest Day.”  On or around “The Longest Day,” the Alzheimer’s Association encourages individuals to do something they love to raise money, so I thought that it would be fitting for me to organize a knitting event.  In addition, knitting has been shown to be an activity that is beneficial to staving off Alzheimer’s and dementia, along with helping to alleviate other conditions related to aging, such as Parkinson’s disease.


     As I have planned this event, attempted to begin a career in real estate, completed hours and hours of paperwork related to my mother’s move from her own home in Arizona to an assisted living facility in North Carolina, met with attorneys, social workers, nurses, doctors and assisted living staff, organized a summer trip to Scotland (something I would never have pursued at this time had I not purchased tickets  before my mother’s diagnosis), pursued my knitting hobby, dealt with a nineteen-year-old son with some personal issues, and tried to figure out what my daily life is going to look like for the next few years, I have struggled a bit.  Coping with a lack of energy, confidence, and optimism while dealing with the rejection that is naturally a part of a novice's sales career has been disheartening, but the Alzheimer’s Association is supporting me through this process and their educational materials are helping me to see that the waves of emotion that have shaken me since my mother’s diagnosis last November are the natural result of the grieving process. Anger, denial, acceptance, depression, guilt at not recognizing the disease sooner—all of these feelings are experienced by those who care for or love someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia. 

     So, it’s time to give myself a break and take care of myself a bit, which means not letting my beloved knitting blog lapse or knitting design attempts cease.  To commemorate “The Longest Day,” I have designed a simple knitted pansy, to be worn as a corsage or affixed to accessories. The pansy flower gets its name from the French noun pensèe, which can be translated at “thought.” In Victorian times, pansies were believed to symbolize remembrance or were used as a way to say, “I’m thinking of you.” It seems fitting to me  that pansies should be a part of raising awareness of Alzheimer’s disease. You can find the pattern here on Ravelry. Knit this simple pansy and wear it on June 21, The Longest Day.  I used scrap yarn to make my pin. Any DK yarn will work, or go up in yarn weight and use worsted with a size 7 or 8 needle. You can knit the flower all in one color of yarn, if you prefer.

If you would like to make a donation to my Longest Day fundraiser through the Alzheimer’s Association, go to The Longest Day.

Finally, even though I said I wasn't going to recap the last few months, I couldn't resist sharing a few photos of the knitting projects I've been working on or have completed.  

This is the Meadowsweet Shawl, using one skein of Meadow yarn.  

I finally finished the Renaissance Crescent Shawl using Jamieson's Shetland Spindrift.  

I didn't follow the pattern exactly and worked this project in the round, cutting a steek when I was done knitting.  

This is Otter Cove.  I love this sweater's classic styling.  I used Dale Garn Falk DK yarn.   

I used an Estonian cast-on to begin this sock.  The pattern is Toka Socks from the book First Frost:  Cozy Folk Knitting.  

Sunday, January 22, 2017

I'll Take Manhattan

Last week, accompanied by my friend, Dawn, and her daughter, Tia, I traveled to New York City, on my annual pilgrimage to Vogue Knitting Live (VKL). Other highlights of my trip included getting to be a member of the audience of The Dr. Oz Show, dining out in a variety of ethnic restaurants, seeing the musical Beautiful, about singer Carol King,  and spending a soul-soothing afternoon at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. 

At VKL I took I took a six-hour class entitled Fresh Fair Isle, taught by designer Mary Jane Mucklestone. Her class delved into color theory, with a particular focus on color value. (For those unfamiliar with the term, value refers to the lightness or darkness of a color based upon how close it is to white.)  Paying particular attention to value is essential when choosing dominant and background colors for Fair Isle knitting.

Mary Jane ended our time together by having a class discussion about our creations, where she and the members of the class provided feedback.  

My finished samples, not perfect but good practice.  (I needed to go down a needle size on the ribbing.)

Homework before our class was to cast on 48 stitches and join them in a circle using fingering weight yarn, preferably of the Shetland variety, and to complete eight rows of ribbing.   We were also supposed to bring a variety of different colors to use to create fingerless gloves/wrist cuffs. I loved having an excuse to order some Jamieson's Spindrift from Loveknitting to meet the criteria for this assignment.  I do have a wonderful assortment of this yarn sent to me by a dear friend in England, but I’ve already cast on a multi-colored shawl using that yarn.  (I really need to get back to that WIP!)

This mosaic by Tiffany on display at the Met provides its own lesson in color theory.
Love the blues and greens.  

An afternoon learning about color and Fair Isle design and knitting techniques provided an escape from navigating throngs of people on sightseeing excursions with my friend and her daughter.   While I do love the visual and physical stimulation of trucking miles around the city, the room where I sat, learned, and knit with like-minded people was a pleasant oasis in the middle of teeming Times Square.

On Friday and Saturday, the marketplace at VKL was jammed, but on Sunday morning the space was less densely packed, so I spent a wonderful couple of hours browsing the stalls and chatting with the vendors. I purchased a gorgeous hand-painted skein of Hedgehog Fibers Kidsilk Lace from Steven Be’s booth that morning. The day before, I’d also bought some balls of Rauma Tumi yarn from Wall of Wool and a pattern to make a cowl with geometric colorwork. I tried to be pretty frugal on my trip, so the only other purchases I made were a  canvas VKL tote bag and Wrapped in Color, a book of shawl patterns featuring Koigu yarns. 

 A high point of the trip to the marketplace was the opportunity to meet women representing Shetland Wool Week, including Crofthoose Hat designer, Ella Gordon.  One of the trio told me that they were in “culture shock,” so I reassured her that I would most definitely have the same sense when I visit Shetland this coming July.  I am thankful I found the three at a rare quiet moment on Friday night, as they chatted with me for a while and gave me some information that would come in handy on my visit, such as the necessity of renting a car.  When I expressed a bit of hesitation about driving on the left side (stemming from a harrowing experience in the summer of 2015), they reassured me that traffic was light and that the island where Lerwick is situated isn’t too crowded.  “You’ll probably see us,” one of them stated.  

Designer Ella Gordon is in the middle.  I believe the other two women represent the Shetland Textile Museum. 

Another positive experience was the chance I had to share knitting confessions on camera, an opportunity provided by Lion Brand Yarn.  Not only did I get to practice my public-speaking skills, I walked away with a bag of goodies that included two skeins of cashmere yarn! 

Now that I’m home, I’m looking forward to viewing The Dr. Oz Show I saw taped (when it appears on TV), and I will have to check out Lion Brand's Facebook page, to see if I made the cut in the compilation of video confessions the company is putting together.  It’s definitely time for me to stay put for a while. I went to Costco yesterday and weighed myself down with hundreds of pounds of supplies, so I plan to do a little cooking in the coming days and also to complete real estate broker orientation activities for my new company.  I also hope to finish up a shawl I am making. Like the rest of us, I have so much to cast on (and so many WIPs scattered about) and so little time.

At the airport in Charlotte, we are eager to get on our way.  

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Chimichangas on the Sly (or Life Interrupted)

I did manage to finish this shawl on my last trip to Arizona.  The design, "Plum Lace Shawl," is by Zabeth-Loisel Weiner and the yarn 
is from the Cat Print Hand Dye Collection by Schoppel, color 2153.  

This blog post, loosely connected to knitting, is a response to numerous people I've run into lately who've asked me about the status of my fledgling real estate career.  

“How is your real estate career going?  Been busy?”  I can’t count how many times people have asked me this question in the time that’s elapsed since I passed my real estate exam.  My answer should be, “Great!  I’m inundated.”  Indeed, the market has picked up since the crash of 2008 and people are moving to the Charlotte area in droves.  New businesses and roads are under construction, so this locale is booming with hustle and bustle. My answer to such inquiries, however, has been convoluted and lengthy.   

The day after I passed my exam, June 18 of 2016, my 22nd wedding anniversary, my husband greeted me with the news that my older teenaged son had once again gotten into some trouble.  After a few days spent digesting the latest crisis, the announcement of which cast a gloomy pall on any anniversary and licensing exam celebrations, I set off for Arizona eight days.  I went to visit my mother in Green Valley, a sprawling 55-plus community nestled in the in the desert, roughly 30 miles south of Tucson.  My mother was unhealthily thin and, characteristic of her, for at least the last five-or-so years, hesitant to go anywhere except Safeway, Wal-Mart, and the 99-Cent store.    I left Green Valley with mixed emotions, relieved to be freed from the spic-and-span environment of my mother’s house, where every aspect of daily life seemed to merit a complex ritual—throwing out the trash involved all sorts of machinations, requiring Ziplock bags, staples, and numerous plastic bins and buckets—but melancholy about how little time I had spent with my mother over the past 24 years since she had moved to Arizona after the loss of her son, my brother.  But, as I’d learned once again on this trip, any mention on my part of my mother’s moving to North Carolina invoked rage in her.  

After I’d returned home and set about completing three 30-hour post-licensing real estate classes, my time in Green Valley seemed a hazy dream,  I’d thought these courses would be a breeze, but learned that each had a difficult exam, and some required the memorization and use of complex math formulas.  Ugh!  In-between classes, I dabbled a little bit in my new real estate career, but most of my time was involved in studying, sitting in class, or completing some long-neglected home repairs.  Finally, though, towards the end of September, I took the exam for my third-and-final class and drove away from the Superior School with a light heart.  As I was sitting at a red light, though, just a few blocks away from the school, I glanced at my silenced cell phone and noticed that I’d had some calls from my husband and from a friend of my mother’s in Arizona.  I pulled over into a leafy subdivision in the Ballantyne area of Charlotte and started to return calls.  I learned that my mother was not doing well.  She’d been suffering from diarrhea, was losing more weight, and seemed very confused.  She wanted me to come to Arizona.  I made plans to leave in a few days and headed off for a ten-day stint.  

During the time there, I shopped for and cooked three meals a day.  Once an inventive gourmet cook, my mother now had an obsession with the sodium content and other nutritional values of her food, a preoccupation related to a previous bout of malnutrition as well as lymphedema in her legs.  Cooking for her was maddening.  And shopping trips, where my mother spent hours reading the sodium and nutritional content of products and nine-times-out-of-ten rejected those foods, were tedious affairs.  Exhausted, one night I decided to serve frozen dinners.  I bought five different types of one brand of “healthy” dinners, and, thankfully, there was one in the bunch that my mother, after reading labels, would deign to eat.  

During that time I also took her to a new doctor, an Indian man with a genial bedside manner who specialized in treating patients over 65 years of age.  My mother was convinced that a drug she’d been taking had been the cause of her confusion and weight loss.  With my cooking and the drug out of her system, and an admonition from the doctor (whom she'd immediately liked and trusted) to ignore sodium content and eat more or be placed in a nursing home, my mother improved some when I was there.  She did seem somewhat confused about numbers, time, and the use of the remote control, but these incidents still seemed few and far between.  I figured she was just getting older.  

On this trip, for the first time in her life, my mother permitted me to drive her car.  I am 52, but she’d been fearful over the years that I might get into a situation that would cause her insurance payments to increase.  Her car is ten years old, but had not one single scratch or door ding, as my mother was as obsessive about choosing a remote parking place as she was about her diet and disposal of garbage.  Towards the end of this visit, I urged my mother to return home with me, so that I could continue to oversee her cooking and help her to get better, but she refused.  

After I returned to North Carolina in early October, I set about gaining some momentum in my real estate career.  I pushed aside worries about my mother.  She’d gained some weight during my stay and seemed clearer-headed.  I got to working getting ready to set up a table at a fall festival in my neighborhood.  I showed a few houses, did some open houses, and attempted to help an elderly lady find a home, a woman I now realize, after my experiences with my own mother, was mired in depression and probably suffered the onset of dementia. I even co-listed a house with my broker-in-charge.

During the first weekend of November, I attended an inspiring workshop at the beach, one which encouraged me to take care of my attitude and physical health each day before turning my focus to professional activities and one which helped cheer me up a bit after my encounter with the agitated older lady.  I returned from those few days at the beach recharged, but, when I walked into my house after the four-hour drive home, I noticed a missed call on my phone from my mother’s doctor.  I called him back and he told me that he had diagnosed my mother with dementia.  I spoke with her and she informed me that she needed to move to North Carolina, had stopped driving, and would give me her car. Rather than rush westward, I stayed home for a couple of weeks to tackle the logistics of moving my mother.  My initial plan was to rent her a house in my neighborhood, but, a few days before I was set to fly to Tucson, that deal fell through, and, after a day spent looking at other rental houses, I had the wise realization that my mother was probably no longer capable of independent living.  I visited an assisted living facility near my home and arranged for a respite stay for her there.  During this period before my arrival in Green Valley, my mother’s anxiety about moving gained in momentum, as did her fear of staying alone.  I hired caregivers to stay with her, at first for a few hours every day or so, and towards the end of time, they remained with her day and night.  

I headed for Arizona on Thanksgiving Day and returned to North Carolina with my mother and a dear friend, Dawn (who’d traveled to Green Valley a week before our departure) on  December 14.  My time in Green Valley were surreal. Save for a few moments the first few days, there was little-to-no time for knitting . . . or reading . . . or  social media or real estate.  I can’t recall a phone call I made or took (and there were many people with whom I spoke:  realtor, cable company, car shipper, newspaper office, doctor, etc.) that was uninterrupted by my mother’s questions and demands.  And I was away for the closing day for the house I’d listed.  

I typically woke at around 4:00 in the morning  (the time change didn’t set well with me) and opened my eyes to my mother standing over the bed, ready to begin her series of demands and questions.  I packed 57 boxes, mostly of antiques and artwork, while my mother interrupted every few minutes to tell me how she needed my help or to ask me questions.  She would not settle down to sit, even after 10 or more hours on her feet and, when she did rest, my mother would begin listing things we needed to do or discuss.  I was cranky and exhausted.  While I packed and attempted to coordinate the move, my mother spent 10 days going through old photographs and stayed up the 24 hours before out flight out of Tucson, obsessing about how she would pack some necessary personal-care items.  I spent lots of time sneaking items into the trash, not because my mother was hesitant to dispose of things, but because the procedures she used to wrap trash would have significantly slowed down or halted my attempts to pack an entire house's worth of belongings in three weeks.  

Dawn was a miracle worker, whose soft-voiced reassurances comforted and settled my mother.  And even though Dawn was suffering from a horrible sinus infection when she was in Green Valley, she worked indefatigably and inspired and calmed us with her mealtime prayers.  I could feel the urgent pleading in her voice (probably the result of shattered nerves) as she prayed, “Dear Lord, thank you for this meal and for bringing us together in peace . . . “  Dawn also made me peal with laughter when she described my mother and me as vampires, who never slept, and when she asserted that my mother’s ability to be next to us at every moment, even at 3:30 or 4:00 in the morning was “freakishly uncanny.”  

One night, near the end of our trip, near midnight, Dawn popped out of bed and said, “I can’t find my nose strips!”   These are adhesive strips placed across the nose to open nasal air passages, to aid congestion and limit snoring. We both laughed hysterically, maybe a little too much so, as I had just spent three weeks in a house with my mother, who loudly announced every five minutes, “I can’t find my glasses!”  “Where are my keys?”  

I’d told Dawn before she came that this trip would not be a vacation, but I believe she’d underestimated the scope of my assertion.  On the morning she’d arrived, however, I’d hired a caregiver to stay with my mother for four hours, so that Dawn and I could stop off at San Xavier, a Spanish mission church on an Indian reservation south of Tucson and then grab some lunch.  That day, I guiltily ate at a little bistro before we headed to my mother’s, knowing she’d be wondering where we were.  (Although my mother’s recent  lack of a sense of time did work to our benefit, I suppose.)  On another day, when we knew my mother would be having a friend over for a few hours, I informed Dawn.  “Go get dressed.  Be ready to go as soon as her friend gets here.”  Trying to look nonchalant, like teenagers up to no good, we informed my mother that we had a few errands to run and would grab a sandwich or something.  Dawn and I then drove to nearby scenic Madiera Canyon and walked a bit.  The clock ticking, we ate chimichangas at the Cow Palace in Amado, a dark cowboy-themed bar and restaurant south of Green Valley.  The enormous chimichangas that were served on platters were rich and meaty,  but I felt rushed and guilty.  Somehow, my mother, who’d seemed to spend much of the last 24 years having a busy social life and avoiding me and my family, had become a needy child who wanted me by her side every minute.  
San Xavier lacks one of its domes as it is presently undergoing restoration.  

The day before our departure, when a long-haired older man with missing teeth saw me working in my mother’s garage stopped in to ask me if he could buy some tools, my mother rushed to my side.  She was nervous.  “He needs to show you the money,” she kept saying, while he kept talking and talking, about his  handyman business, about his wife, about his dog, about his wife’s jewelry.  Caught between two streams of dialogue, I felt like my head was going to pop off and bounce down the driveway and into the wash, a nearby irrigation ditch, typically dry but subject to flash flooding when it rained.  The coyotes would have been happy, I suppose.  

The movers arrived three days before our flight out of Tucson, so I spent three nights on the floor.  We were leaving some items to be sold by a Lutheran Church, so Dawn at least had an air mattress and my mother a bed.  

Food issues were eased on this trip, though, as Julie, a dear friend of my mother’s organized a battalion of my mother and her mutual friends to bring meals every two days.  With nary a nutritional content label in sight, my mother ate and ate.  And I was freed from grocery shopping trips, which caused anxiety and paralyzing confusion in me about what to purchase.  And somehow, despite melt-downs, tears, and tantrums (mostly on the part of my mother but sometimes on my part), we managed to get the house ready to be listed on the market, the moving van came, and the car was picked up by a transport company.  After a few days and some last-minute sweeping of items into bags, we drove off in a transport van to the airport.  Sleep deprived and brain dead, Dawn and I managed to leave all sorts of items in various airports, including a carry-on bag in the security-check area in Tucson and Dawn’s purse on a chair in the baggage claim area of Charlotte-Douglass airport.  Miraculously I was able to recover the purse after it had sat there undisturbed for over 30 minutes.  

My mother is now in her second assisted living facility here in the Charlotte area.  She has never been easy!  But the first center definitely did have its defects, including a sour-smelling carpet and subpar food.  A typical menu featured “Tater Tot Casserole” for lunch and “Chili Dogs” for dinner.  Somehow we muddled through Christmas, too, although I never made it to a church service or holiday festivity.  I did, however, spend hours each day during the holidays moving furniture and clothes and making trips to the doctor, Target, and Walgreens for toiletries, bedding, clothing, and medicine.  (My mother became ill with a severe cough and congestion a few days after her arrival here.)

The new assisted living place has white tablecloths and decent food.  It would be a blessing if my mother could put on a few pounds and have some quality of life there.  While her anxiety has significantly abated, she is painfully aware of her condition, adding to an already monumental and difficult transition.  While accelerating in intensity in the last couple of months, I believe her illness has been with her a long time, manifesting itself in her uber cleanliness and excessive frugality.   My mother, who for years, has not bought shoes and has refused to spend any money for any entertainment except for a cheap lunch once in a while, is planning to purchase some make-up and some new clothes.  Beautiful in a classic blonde way as a younger woman, if she can get healthy, she just might shine again. 

This picture was taken of my mother as a young wife and mother, while she was
visiting Washington, D.C.

And, as for me, I have a bad cold and stayed in today knitting and drinking tea.  I am finishing up a shawl for my friend, Dawn, and ordered some Manos de Uruguay yarn this morning to make a shawl for my mother’s friend Julie.  I need to do another for Pat, a woman from Green Valley who has also been a bulwark of support to my mother.  I also plan to start work with a new real estate company in a few days.  The former broker-in-charge of my previous three-woman company was an inspiring mentor, but, after six months of life in a blur of fits and starts, I am ready to start over.   Be reborn as it were.  My new real estate firm of 75 agents provides all sorts of formal training.  Training I need to point my focus back to my career.  

This shawl I am knitting for Dawn, one designed by Helene Rush, is appropriately named "Taking Flight."  The yarn and pattern are by Knit One, Crochet Too.  

The latter half of 2016 was a wild ride.  It’s time to settle in for the next challenge.  I gained a great deal of experience moving my mother and plan to use that to help future elderly clients and their families as they change living situations.  I also learned that I desperately need some down time, preferably spent knitting or reading, to replenish my energies.  My husband and sons here in North Carolina could benefit from some of my attention, as well.  Months ago I’d planned a trip to Vogue Knitting Live in New York and hope that things settle down in the next week or so, so that I can make my flight on January 12.  After that, it’s time to stay home a bit.